Every husband should read this !!!
Love her … when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her… when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love her… when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
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Love her... when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you
Love her… when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her… when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her… when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her… when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her... when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.
Love her… when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.
Love her... when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
Love her… when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.
Love her… when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.
Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay
Love her… when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)
Love her… when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass
Love her… when she stains your clothes. You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway
Love her… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her… when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both
Love her… she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessing of Allaah be upon him) advised concerning the woman:
• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessing of Allaah be upon him) said:
"It is true that you have certain rights in regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives, only under Allah's trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat you women well and be kind to them, for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with anyone of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste." (1)
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Foot Note:
(1) - One of The last sermon of the Prophet-peace be upon him- is known as Khutbatul Wada'. It is mentioned in almost all books of Hadith. Following Ahadith in Sahih Al-Bukhari refer to the sermon and quote part of it. See Al-Bukhari, Hadith 1623, 1626, 6361) Sahih of Imam Muslim also refers to this sermon in Hadith number 98. Imam al-Tirmidhi has mentioned this sermon in Hadith nos. 1628, 2046, 2085. Imam Ahmed bin Hanbal has given us the longest and perhaps the most complete version of this sermon in his Masnud, Hadith no. 19774.
Imaan
